I’m a guy. Any guy that doesn’t tell you they’re an active (at worst) or recovering a-hole (at best) is probably lying. As a single guy, I have been known to TRY and use those apps (to literally zero success) and have heard from a number of women who say men like to send them a picture of their schwantz very early in the exchange. I’m far from a prude but that seems a bit peculiar (at best) and micro-aggressive (at worst). Getting older is not for the weak. Getting older and attempting to date? Takes real strength. Great read. Thanks for the insight.